I just finished planning a 10 day trip in December to Encinitas, California to ring in the New Year. I’m so excited about it!
This got me thinking.
I’ve been to San Diego three times before. Twice when I was broke and more recently once when I wasn’t.
Planning this trip earning five times more income now, compared to the past two times has been vasty different!
In past years I used to think;
“It’s so expensive can I afford it right now?”
“Even if I get down there, how am I going to afford food and accommodation?”
One of the most common fears I hear from people is their money fear. They just can’t do the things they want to do in life and are constantly thinking lack.
I completely understand because it was a huge fear of mine too. That’s why I chose to change my life, hustle like crazy and earn more money.
Money gives you options.
Maybe just like you, I’m working on becoming financially free too. But I did take my income from $20,000/year to $133,000/year in 24 months working from home.
I don’t say that to brag. It’s what’s possible for you too. If I can achieve it, so can you.
I know today’s training on “3 Simple Ways To End Your Money Fear Now” will help you because it helped me 6X my income. More importantly, ease the mind chatter of stress.
Are you starting to get a sense where you’re stuck? One acronym for F.E.A.R. is; False Evidence Appearing Real.
The thing is, when you’re stressed about money it’s VERY real!
So in today’s comments below I really need your input. The best way for me to give you the highest value videos I can, they have to be relevant to what YOU want!
Or I’ll just be creating videos that don’t serve you, and won’t make a difference in your life.
So, here are your three questions to comment below with;
- What do you want?
- Why do you want it?
- What’s stopping you?
Just incase you missed writing these down, here are the 3 questions from today’s video for you to take notes on.
1. What Is The Gift? – Your mess is your message
2. Am I being honest? – Write down the problem then only list solutions.
3. When Is My Escape Date? – Set a goal, Pick a date and expand your vision.
To Your Amazingness,
Ryan
PS: Thank you for being amazing, caring, courageous, giving and a heck of a lot of fun to be around!
Great video!
1) I want to resign from my 13 year career, and yes, I have already set my “date” for June of this year (I am a teacher). I want to expand my business (which I already started to help with needed extra income) so that I can do that full time.
2) Why? I am a workaholic with no time or energy for loved ones, working 60+ hours a week, and I need to earn extra money on top if that just to make ends meet. I had thought “balance” would come with time, but 13 years later the demands just increase. I love children and teaching them, but the work load combined with the salary mean I don’t see a future where I will be able to live a balanced life, or able to financially be in a”safe” place.
3) What is stopping me… I have made my decision to proceed with my dream, but the biggest fear and obstacle is that being single, there is no “safety net” of another income. If I fail, I crash and burn. Also, I have mountains of student loan and other debt, which makes it very scary to turn down steady income…even though I also know that I will never get “on track” working 60 hours a week for $2300 a month take home. I know the only way to get ahead is to CREATE that income and balanced life, but I anticipate many frozen-in-fear moments in the next 8 months!
Jill great comment and I honour for stepping into those frozen-in-fear moments!
You’re in a great place. You brought up a couple things that got my attention. Two words specifically. Safety and Balance. Two things that it sounds like you value very much.
So here’s my question for you to sit with…. Am I willing to give up safety or security to achieve the life I know I deserve to live? 😉
I loved your video and you are right about the need to take control. I am just overwhelmed and not sure where to start in taking that control.
I want to get out of debt. I want to pay bills on time and stop calls from creditors.
I have a business but it took so much to make it happen that four years into it I am still behind the eight ball!
I am 58 years old with enormous talents and skills yet I can’t get free from debts long enough to fly with it! I own a franchise which should at least make me a good salary but its month to month and bill to bill with money and I am SO over this lifestyle!!!
Hey Paula, great comment. I hear you! I was there just a few short years ago also. So the question would be, what belief is stopping you from changing your lifestyle?
I don’t have a belief that is stopping me. I believe I am a talented person with strong skills and work ethic. I really don’t know why I am always struggling. I have an education. I thought that was a good plan. Then I began a career in teaching and the money was not enough to afford a decent life style. So I decided I needed to own a business maybe that was the way to be financially happy. So I bought a franchise, learned the food business and now five years later I am still living on a tight rope. I have a modest home and a modest car. I don’t travel or do any type of “extras” in my life and I am tired of just making do. I pay one obligation after another and basically I am still doing the same stuff in the business world that I did as a professional in education. I make money for the franchise company but not really for myself. That’s how I felt about education. I was a good teacher that believed in what I was doing but I was bringing home $2600.00 a month. How can one be expected to stay motivated on that? Many teachers are married and theirs is a second income and for them that’s enough but for a single person that is a very small income.
I do belief I am capable of making more money because of my talents but I can’t seem to get there. I have also tried many things on the side to supplement my income but I haven’t been profitable at them. I mean I made some money but not life changing money. Just more hours of work after work if you know what I mean.
I am beginning to think maybe I just don’t “have it”. Like I don’t have what it takes to really take off at something.
I don’t really know the answer but I do know at 58 years of age I should be farther along. Just frustrated I guess but maybe out of frustration some new ideas will evolve. Thanks for hearing me!