Can you believe they said that to me? Haters…Got Some? Of course you do.
Unless you’re “perfect” you definitely have people that simply don’t believe in you. If you’re anything like me, there’s always that ONE person who just doesn’t.
Did anyone NOT believe that you would be successful with your business?
Yeah, call me when you’re making money and I’ll do business with you.
You’re going to be a millionaire? Pffffft OK. Good Luck.
Maybe you should just get a real job.
Think about it. WHY would people say such mean and nasty things to you? Not only do I answer that in today’s video, but I also give you deep understanding about why it makes you feel those nasty feelings…
I’m curious…
When someone negative said you couldn’t be successful, how did you react internally?
I‘ll show you how successful I will become
Write down a list of all the people who said NO to your business (my GOD, I actually did this with my first company!!)
Engage a success shadow that says “I’m not worthy, and an EGO that screams I’m going to PROVE I am worthy!”
Remember, to ask…Am I growing my business for a higher purpose than myself OR am I attempting to prove to others who didn’t believe in me?
Learn to embrace your shadow, for whatever you fuel with darkness only remains dark. You may feel you’re winning, but you’ll only lose in the end.
True sense of fulfilment comes from helping others from a genuine space. Which I chatted about in The Success Shadow.
In Gratitude!
Ryan
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Looking forward to hearing your comments my friend!
I really like what you are talking about in this video! Thank you for putting these hard to describe feelings into words for us to understand and then focus on what we can do to move forward!!
My pleasure man:)
Love this! You make a great point here Ryan. Most of the time our personal insecurities get in the way of our own success, but often we will project these insecurities onto others. I love what you said about checking your critique of others to reveal your own insecurities – a great way to uproot your limiting beliefs and put you in a position to rise above them. The first step to conquering your limiting beliefs is in being aware of what they are. Then you are in a position of power and can work to eliminate them.
I actually talk about this in my Book. Great post Ryan!
Luc Despres
Awesome bro great tips. Appreciate your leadership!