Apparently you’re only as good as your five closest friends. Over the years, I’ve done my best to associate myself with people who have already achieved what I’m in the process of achieving. After years of getting to know myself and others, I’ve learned there’s five key qualities of an individual that you definitely want to surround yourself with if you plan on being successful.
1. Successful People Have Positive Friends
If your friends and family constantly complain about their lack of money, it will undoubtedly affect your money manifesting mojo.
Set an intention to find friends, mastermind buddies and mentors in the next income bracket. Actively seek out places where rich people hang out, for example, your local members-only club.
When you surround yourself with richer people (and see that they are real, just like you), you’ll start to believe it’s possible for yourself. Especially when they’re positive.
2. Successful People Have Friends With Goals
Money is attracted to clarity. Otherwise, it’s like asking your local pizza place to send you “something nice”. You want more money in the bank? How much?
A million bucks is nice, but does your ideal lifestyle even cost a million dollars? By attaching a specific dream to a financial goal, you’re more likely to push through obstacles along the way.
How many stories have you read where money was manifested at the very last minute? It’s because there was an urgency and a specificity to their goal. If your closest friends are just “going with the flow” you’re in trouble.
3. Successful People Have Friends With Gratitude
Gratitude is the manifesting secret sauce, and it’s the quickest way to turnaround a poverty mindset. Start by tracking every single cent that comes into your life, and notice how often you compartmentalize money. If it comes too easily, do you dismiss it as not “real money”?
All money is real and you’ll often find that you’re richer than you think. Every coin in the street is reason to celebrate (and definitely pick it up to manifest more). Decide that every dollar is a sign of wealth to come.
In Gratitude,
Ryan
Another excellent post Ryan.
I completely agree that in order to manifest the lifestyle you’re looking for, you will need to spend the bulk of your time with those who have what you want or at the least people who are going for it! When you’re surrounded by empowered individuals all striving for a common goal there is a synergy that happens that just gets you all fired up.
Thanks again for your leadership Ryan. You rock!
You got it brother, spot on man appreciate your leadership!
I’m grateful for you Ryan and for breaking this down for us.
I’ve always heard “You can’t hang out with the turkeys if you want to soar with the eagles.”
HA! So true 🙂
Love this post, Ryan! I went to T. Harv Eker’s Millionaire Mind Intensive at the end of last year and it completely changed the way I look at money.
One of the funnest action steps they have us do is freaking out and shouting, “I AM A MONEY MAGNET! THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!” whenever we find a lucky penny or any random change out and about. It sounds silly but I think it definitely teaches you to notice where the abundance is in your life even if it feels otherwise most of the time. (The speaker, who is a millionaire of course, does this — and weirds a lot of strangers out — whenever he finds a penny :))
Thanks for sharing this valuable post!
Hey Pamela! Awesome I love it. 😉 I’ve done a few courses with him great way to brain your brain! I’d bet on you!